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Jan 27, 2016 4:55am |
Have
we forgotten that these kids were once our precious babies? Can we
imagine how confusing and frightening it must be for lgbtq youth being
raised in a traditional religious home that listens to the likes of
Franklin Graham? How devastating must it be for these children to
realize that they do not fit, neither can they change themselves to fit
into the only mold deemed "natural" and acceptable by
everyone they love and look up to, including God? Can you imagine how
difficult it would be to risk rejection and, in a cry for help, come out
to their parents? How would it be if, instead of allowing their initial
shock to escalate into hot-headed condemnation and banishment, these
parents sat down and really listened to their children. Maybe they could
ignore the strident voices and take a little time to think and to get
more information about it. Could they put away disproven theories and
unexamined assumptions and be open to new understandings and reliable
research? How might it change their perspective if they discovered there
was no one to blame for any of this--no moral failures or bad choices
made by anyone. They might come to that conclusion after some real
pondering: our child tells us these feelings and dreams come unbidden,
consistently, and out of her heart of hearts. It is not a choice for
her. Can anyone really choose their feelings or their core identity? Why
would anyone actually choose to have feelings that bring on such
turmoil and rejection and that seem to jeopardize eternal prospects?
After learning about more likely explanations and coming to understand
what really matters, mothers could confound the "religious" hypocrites :
"As my son grew inside my body, did he choose his genes, along with all
the posible chemical or biological triggers that passed back and forth
between us at crucial stages of his development? If not, then how is it
right to condemn him out of hand? You don't know him or how he lives his
life or how he treats others. Those are the things he does have a
choice in, and that is where accountability lies. Besides, HE'S JUST A
KID, for heaven's sake!" Rant over.
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Monday, March 21, 2016
I have pretty strong feelings about the treatment of LGBTQ people. Here's a Facebook post:
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