Monday, January 6, 2020

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Sharman Wilson's Reviews > The Next Mormons: How Millennials Are Changing the LDS Church

The Next Mormons by Jana Riess

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it was amazing
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Read 2 times. Last read April 22, 2019 to April 30, 2019.

I have been waiting for this book to come out ever since Jana announced her intention to do a comprehensive survey on generational Mormon attitudes, especially focusing on the Millennial generation. I am pleased that it covered so many bases so well! With all the data analysis that goes with survey results, one might have expected some pretty dry reading, but that was not what I found here. The personal stories of people that were interviewed brought the statistics to life, and organizing the survey results according to specific themes brought it all together in an accessible, very readable way. I actually had a hard time putting it down! This is a great resource for anyone open to having their preconceptions turned upside down and inside out.
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Sharman Wilson's Reviews > Deep Down Dark: The Untold Stories of 33 Men Buried in a Chilean Mine, and the Miracle That Set Them Free

Deep Down Dark by Héctor Tobar

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really liked it
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Incredible true story of a disastrous mine collapse in the practically uninhabitable Atacama desert of Chile. In its wake, we will witness human strength pitted not only against the forces of nature but also against its own constant companion--human weakness. We observe this struggle amongst the coal mine owners and managers, the 33 trapped miners, hundreds of their loved ones, friends, supporters, gawkers, and members of the press, the rescuers, the Chilean politicians, government officials, and the huge worldwide tv audience. There is one man's greed working against another man's determination to feed his family. In response to the severe stress, we see one man's ingenuity next to another's bad judgement, and then at a later time see that they have switched places. The same crazy thing can happen in displays of cooperation and contention, taking action and giving up, self-promotion and self-sacrifice, and--underlying it all--the struggle between despair and hope. Because of his attention to the messy relationships, the different responses to crises, the good, the bad, and the ugly, the author takes the names of those affected by this prolonged underground nightmare and reveals to us the real people behind the names. They are real, mostly ordinary people thrust into a rationally impossible, but irrationally possible rescue operation. It is only possible because it can be seen and made so by the amazingly flexible and adaptable human mind.

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I see where the Apostle Paul was coming from, and why he encouraged patience with "letter of the law" saints.The early saints were right in the thick of the controversy about whether they could eat meat (seen as kosher when prepared correctly) that may have been sacrificed to Greek and Roman idols (not kosher according to the Jewish law). Paul apparently felt this particular law was no longer relevant to Christ's followers, but he didn't want to be divisive by offending these "weak" saints, as he calls them, by eating suspect meat in front of them. It would be a kindness to refrain, perhaps as a way to allow his fellow Jewish brothers and sisters in Christ more time to adjust to the huge changes going on as the church drew in more and more Gentiles.
Similarly, wearing a beard was the norm, even venerable, for Latter-day Saints until facial hair became associated with the free-love, anti-authoritarian, anti-war (with buzzed heads being symbolic of the hated military draft) rebellions of the 1960's and 70's. Suddenly beards took on a negative connotation and were prohibited at BYU and for those in church leadership positions (which included a majority of devout Mormon men at some point or another). That was more than a half a century ago, and as fashions have come and gone, the stigma has been falling by the wayside for a long time. A few years ago, I walked into a ward in Salt Lake and saw an entire bishopric on the stand sporting well-kept beards, beaming happily as an older man with a pony-tail and a guitar led a small group of Primary children in song.
It seems to me that at this point, with plenty of time and opportunity to adjust to the changing times, divisiveness about this non-essential, culturally-driven stuff now tends to creep in from those who haven't been able to shed their 1960's (or whatever era) lenses. They/We don't realize it, but that kind of misplaced inflexibility can easily lead to self-righteous judgement. That, in turn, can lead to harmful self-righteous speech and behavior, which breeds divisiveness, whether it comes from the offender or the offended. It is no wonder that Paul's letter to the divided Corinthian saints ultimately teaches that charity--that pure love which dispels self-righteousness--is the greatest and most Godly virtue of all. Sunday School lesson over for now 
Comments
  • Kira Barker I'm still trying to understand why anyone would think a beard indicates a lack of faithfulness?? I don't recall any conference talk telling men to shave off their beards. Numerous early prophets and apostles had beards. I don't get it.
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  • Steph Fairbanks Wait - there’s a beard debate at church?? I thought it was just my dad being ultra-conservative when he told Ben Fairbanks he’d have a hard time finding a job with a beard (which might be true in my dad’s business world, but definitely not the case for stereotypically fashion-challenged scientists).😂
    • Sharman Hunter Wilson Steph Fairbanks, have you seen any bearded guys in any bishopric or stake presidencies in our neck 😏 of the woods? I think it is still frowned upon for them. BYU still has a no beards policy, doesn't it? I think there's this thing about bishoprics, etc. following BYU standards. There doesn't seem to be any problem for active men in any other circumstances around here at least.
    • Steph Fairbanks Huh, I guess I’ve been blissfully unaware. I’ve told Ben he is not to ever shave his beard, under any circumstances (unless he wants to, then he can do whatever he wants). If the inspiration is that he needs to be in a bishopric, then he’s going to be in there with the beard, by gum!😜
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  • Sharman Hunter Wilson It had to be something passed down to them by people unhappily stuck in the 60's.
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  • Crystal Darling Farnsworth Ann Lacouture - This is a great real time analysis on part of our Sunday School lesson today from a friend of mine in Colorado. Good points!
    • Kira Barker Crystal Darling Farnsworth I mentioned this in my Sunday school class yesterday too. How can we have unity? How about not making judgments about someone’s faith or character based on something as superficial as facial hair? Or what they wear to church, or any number of other stupid things that have been tossed out as signs of “unworthiness” in the past!
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  • Sharon French Stevens I just think it is pathetic that we, as a body, are so determined to find superiority by judging others that something as ludicrous as how a man chooses to deal with facial hair ever was, and still is an issue.