Monday, January 6, 2020

Facebook Post:
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This put me into full rampage mode. I've been lucky to see many World Heritage sites in the Middle East,and these bombastic and ignorant threats are hitting too close to home. Has anyone tried to get through to Trump that this is actually a war crime? Does he even care? We're talking about Persia, one of the Cradles of Civilization! Thousands of years of history that is the heritage not just of the modern nation of Iran, but of much of the world, ourselves included. Being enemies of post-revolution Iran, for a tiny speck of time (less than 50 years) does not make it OK to obliterate precious beauty of the ages. It broke hearts all over the world when the Taliban destroyed the amazing giant Buddhas in Afghanistan and when ISIS detonated the beautiful ancient city of Palmyra in Syria.
And in case we've forgotten, we Americans, along with the Brits, callously bombed Dresden, one of Europe's most beautiful (and completely non-strategic) cities to smithereens, killing thousands of civilians in the process. They were trying--and failing--to teach Hitler a lesson, just as Trump is trying to do to Iran. His threats have been counterproductive (surprise!) and have only succeeded in turning even the moderate, anti-Iranian government, pro-democracy protesters against us. We are against the corrupt government in Iran, not the people under its thumb. We should be able to relate to what it's like to
live under a corrupt government.😥
From Facebook:

I would imagine this affects--in a happy way 🤗--practically every family in the U.S. and Canada! They forgot to mention that this policy has only been applicable in these two countries because temple weddings are recognized as legal here, i.e. no need for a separate civil wedding. For those not familiar with LDS (Mormon) wedding traditions, this is a HUGE deal! As I understand it, the yearlong wait was put in place to encourage young people to get married the "right" way. It put the temple sealing aspect of a wedding in the forefront and motivated young people to be "temple-worthy" as they began their married lives. The downside of that was hurt feelings and sometimes rifts in close relationships when couples had family members or friends who were not temple recommend-holding LDS. Pretty hard on a mom or dad who couldn't attend their child's wedding! The change reflects a willingness of the leaders to prioritize the couple's support network when it's getting harder and harder to hold onto the ties that bind. 🎉💝🌹
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  • Rondie Rudolph Sharman, does this mean that a couple could have a civil ceremony in the morning and a temple sealing that afternoon?
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  • Crystal Darling Farnsworth This would have made my life SO much easier 43 years ago!
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  • Crystal Darling Farnsworth I got married in the Temple and my whole family had hurt feelings. Some of them were already angry that I had joined the Church. I resisted being manipulated by anger but, while I’m happy to have been sealed in the Temple, at the time, everyone had raw feelings to some degree, including me.
    • Karen Swenson Layman Crystal Darling Farnsworth so sorry that happened. My parents and Jim's parents were all inactive members at the time, but they realized that we would be marrying in the temple. I have wished since that they could have been more involved instead of being bystanders.
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  • Eva Gillespie-Larsen Hardest on parents, but missing siblings' weddings also is hard. I've missed three since leaving the church, and it really sucked every time.